The Way of AI and ChatGPT in Sales #467

 The Way of AI and ChatGPT in Sales #467

Today instead of noodling on what the old master Lao Tze says about the Tao of Sales Babble we’re going to babble about a huge breakthrough this winter,   Artificial Intelligence or AI. Why? Let me make a bold statement: Not since crypto has there been a disruptive innovation at this level. In this episode we zero in on how to use AI and ChatGPT in sales.

Your Obedient ChatGPT AI Virtual Assistant

It’s been all over the news and you may have heard all about this AI stuff. Yet I’m surprised that I keep meeting people who haven’t a clue about this breakthrough. This winter I’ve been playing with these systems so I thought I would share a bit about what I’ve learned and how I’ve been applying it to sales.

ChatGPT is an AI chatbot system, similar to those little boxes on the far right bottom on websites that ask you questions but never gives you good answers.

OpenAI the company that made ChatGPT released it to show off and test what a very large, powerful AI system can accomplish. You can ask it countless questions and often will get an answer that’s useful.

So how does it work? ChatGPT is a state-of-the-art natural language processing (NLP) model developed by OpenAI that can generate human-like responses to text-based inputs. NLP is a field of AI that focuses on teaching computers to understand human language and respond appropriately.  It uses predictive analytics just like a fortune teller, but for data. It looks at historical data and tries to predict what’s going to happen in the future.

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Lao Tze said

If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to. If you are not afraid of dying, there is nothing you cannot achieve.

Links For You AI ChatGPT for Sales

TRY IT OUT TODAY http://openai.com 

 

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How to Dispel Anger with Difficult Prospects #466

How to Dispel Anger with Difficult Prospects #466

Have you ever wanted to throttle a prospect despite the fact you know it would kill the deal? And then luckily you found some composure and  decided to hide from them rather than to become one of them?  That’s not a solution. The entire science of selling is based around finding an agreement on an exchange of value. Pissing off your prospects is the surest path to pissing away your career! So what’s a seller to do when dealing with  difficult prospects? That’s the topic for today.

Today’s Chapter: Defusing Difficult Prospects

The Master Seller has no mind of their own.
They are aware of the needs of prospects.

They are good to prospects that treat them well.
They are also good to prospects that don’t treat them well.

They shed rude comments
like a duck sheds water

Humble they are a good neighbor,
Optimistic like a child.
In time prospects look and listen.

Today’s Story

From the grapevine Pat heard some disturbing news about one of Chris’s accounts. Pat immediately called, 

“I heard you got angry with one of the decision makers and some harsh words were exchanged. Is that right?”

Chris hesitated “Yes, but they had it coming. They’ve got  no idea what they’re doing and they don’t appreciate all I’ve done for them.”.

Head shaking Pat responded “Look, we need to treat everyone with respect no matter how nice or rude they are. And not because it may blow up in social media or put a deal in jeopardy but because it’s our responsibility to be humble and help. Our job is to let prospects become aware of our products and accept that it may take awhile for them to find value. Getting angry helps no one. 

Chris shrugged “You have no idea how dumb these people are”.

“Maybe so” said Pat “But I do know this, holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. As Gandhi said to lose patience is to lose the battle.”

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I get this can be hard at times. When you put your shoulder to the wheel and all you get is a cold shoulder, you take it personal. But it’s not personal. 

“When people are rude to you, they reveal who they are, not who you are.”- Anon 

It’s for us to be a good citizen who isn’t afraid to lend a shovel to the next door neighbor who’s excited to plant a spring garden. Sure they may soon ask to borrow a hoe and a rake and before you know it your garage is empty and tidy for the first time in years. Meanwhile your neighbor is harvesting a bumper crop of Rutger  tomatoes. When your generous and patient people start to trust and yes, they may start asking to borrow your lawn mower. But more importantly when you offer some advice and wisdom, they’ll be ready to listen.

As sellers, the sooner you wake up to this fact, the less anxiety you’ll experience when dealing with difficult prospects. The take away here is to not get  angry, but to get neighborly.

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How to Overcome The Gatekeeper #455

How to Overcome The Gatekeeper #455

When  B2B selling you’re often calling on large organizations that by design make it hard to connect with an executive, or figure out who’s the right person to talk to. Sometimes these companies have administrative assistants tasked as gatekeepers/ They do everything in their power to stop sales people from talking to their boss. What’s a seller to do? Taoism teaches that the harder one tries, the more resistance one creates for oneself, and the harder things become. This is quite a conundrum. So what can we do to soften the hardest of gatekeepers? That’s the topic for today.

Today’s Chapter:  Overcoming the Gatekeeper

Water is soft to touch
Yet can overcome the hardest of granite
An authentic desire to help
Can overcome the hardest Gatekeeper.

I was in the area.
Thought I would stop by.
Here is some information, you may find of value.
Would you like to learn more?

Not pushing, not bullying,
not rushing the moment.
A genuine desire to help and befriend
Opens doors to opportunities.
Lest the listener gets bored.

Today’s Story

Towards the end of the day Chris knocked on Pat’s door. “I wonder if I can pick your brain?” asked Chris. “Sure” said Pat. Chris smiled and said “I appreciate the opportunity to work these larger deals but they all have assistants and I can’t get through to the decision maker. What am I to do?”

Pat nodded. “I know this sounds hard but it’s not. Some gatekeepers are defensive, some not. Just remember they are all people. If you’ve left a number of unreturned messages, ask their advice on when it’s best to call. Ask their advice on who’s the best person to call. Treat them like the boss, ask the qualifying questions, they often know the answers. Heck sometimes they are the decision maker. 

Chris asked “So what’s the mindset I should have?”

Pat replied “Be a floating log in the river, you go farther going with the flow, then try to paddle upstream. Put yourself in the place of the gatekeeper, embrace who they are and respond in kind”

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Some gatekeepers are on power trips. It’s tough to get around them. I know. But with patience and when you interact with complete respect, you can turn around the hardest of Gatekeeper. Abraham Lincoln said.

“If you wish to win a man over to your ideas, first make him your friend.”

This lesson is essential in all selling situations. When you can turn strangers into friends, even gatekeepers,  with respect and patience anything is possible.

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How a Great Sales Presentation is Like a Fine Meal #454

How a Great Sales Presentation is Like a Fine Meal #454

The Tao Te Ching says that in order to be light on your feet you need a steady mind. That’s what it takes to entertain guests during this holiday season. Right? A lot can go wrong, but it can be dealt with when you expect problems.  The same is true during a sales call.  Adept sellers are proficient at  juggling a number of balls at once. Each presentation is a full course meal. You don’t want to serve up too much of any one dish during the meal. It takes balance and patience. That’s the topic for today, how a great sales presentation is like a fine meal.

Today’s Chapter:  Client Meal

Mindful of your dress
Choose your dinnerware carefully.

When making your pitch
Spoon feed the details slowly.

Table any issues
You can’t address to completion.

Cut your pitch
Into bite size amounts.

Be careful not to have the horse
Follow the ala carte.

And when you come to a fork in the conversation,
Pick it up
Lest the listener gets bored.

Today’s Story

On Monday Chris asked Pat “How was your holiday? When we talked last week you were a bit worried” Pat let out a long breath and said “It was a bit rocky. But that’s family. Right? The food was great but there were moments of sniping about politics, sibling rivalry and past mistakes dug up. I was more interested in the families and how everyone is doing. But it kept going off the rails. I regret I didn’t take the fork in the road”  

“What do you mean by that?” Queried Chris, 

Pat said “It’s like making a pitch. It takes a lot of work to plan a quality presentation, just like a great feast. But sometimes prospects sabotage the presentation by going off tangent on controversial topics. The seller needs to be the grownup in the room. Sellers need to  steer the conversation back on course. I had an opportunity to take the fork in the road. I didn’t and

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Yogi Beara, the major league baseball catcher, manager and coach  was known for his impromptu comments, malapropisms, and witticisms. Yogi once said

“When you come to a fork in the road, take it.”

This alludes to the importance of mindfulness and opportunity because it’s easy to fall into a rut of habit. Buyers can pick up on these things and when that happens  and you become a commodity. That’s not good. To further the restaurant metaphor, Yogi Beara also said that

“Nobody goes there anymore. It’s too crowded.”

That is the challenge of branding, to differentiate yourself from the rest, or nobody’s going to go there anymore. Value and ROI, that’s the ticket for a successful and  great sales presentation. 

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Lessons To Be Learned From Lost Deals #453

Lessons To Be Learned From Lost Deals #453

Excuse me if I sound muffled. My head is in a fog. Last week, just before the Thanksgiving holiday I tested positive for Covid. At first I thought it was allergies, or a cold. But no, it’s this. I must have contracted in Las Vegas where I attended MJ Biz. I guess this is the exception to the rule that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. No, it hopped on the plane and traveled to Chicago. With that said it’s been a quiet and private holiday. Just myself and Denise, hot tea and the Tao Te Ching. Today we discuss how to take lessons from lost deals. All the world is our tutor, don’t you know?

Today’s Chapter:  Lost Deals Are Tutors

Sales is a process of becoming.
Like budding trees in spring
They are in constant flux.
Shaped by deals both won and lost.

While others elect to stay the same
The Master Seller knows this is folly,
From the death of a purchase
They learn from past mistakes
See lost deals as tutors
For new deals yet to come.

Trusting in the process,
They approach prospects like a newborn
Buyers see the sellers as honest;
A vendor here to help.

Today’s Story

On the phone Pat called Chris and said “I just heard the bad news. So sorry the deal fell through”.  “Thanks” said Chris. “I appreciate you reaching out. It hurt! But to be honest I wasn’t surprised. Remember all those caveats they had in the contract? I knew, something was amiss” “Yes, my thoughts exactly” said Pat

Chris went on “I guess they never fully shared their concerns”. “Not so much that” Said Pat “they never fully trusted us”. Or maybe” responded Chris “They never fully trusted themselves. You know I don’t know what they really want.  I bet that’s the lesson for next time.”

“I like this insight. You’re right,” said Pat “That is the lesson”.

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The Los Angeles Lakers basketball phenom Lebron James has repeatedly said

“You have to be able to accept failure to get better.”

Every conversation, every relationship, every prospect, client and customer is your tutor. Everyone has something to teach you: how to be a better sales professional or at the very least what not to do. In chapter 48 the Tao Te Ching it says

“In pursuit of knowledge, every day something is added. In the practice of the Tao, every day something is dropped.”

This applies to selling too. Life and selling is in continual change. Be awake to it. 

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Empathy is the Key to Sales #446

Empathy is the Key to Sales #446

Sometimes it’s dangerous to have a hunter mentality where you think of prospects as game and you the hunter. This kind of competitiveness may get in the way of empathy. Once upon a time, a sales guy may have gotten away with bullying a prospect into buying. But those days are gone, the internet destroyed that. Customers have choices. There is more competition  and what buyers truly desire, is to have someone take away their problems. When prospects get a sense that you care, they will trust that you may have the solution. Maybe not all of life’s troubles. But maybe a few of them. Empathy is the Key to sales. That’s our topic for today

Today’s Chapter:  Empathy

If you want to earn trust
You must listen,
If you want to earn faith
You must empathize with distress,
If you want to earn loyalty
You must desire to alleviate pain.

Repeated sales are the fruit of repeated compassion.
This key opens doors.

Today’s Story

As Chris qualified a prospect, Pat listened in on the call. After 10 minutes it was clear that Lee checked off all the boxes. But when Chris started to explain the product’s benefits, Lee seemed bored. Pat heard this and texted Chris “ask about the ramifications of the pain”.  Chris immediately pivoted the conversation and asked Lee how the problem affected their business.  Lee gave a lengthy explanation on issues with profit and slipped schedules. 

Pat then texted “think empathy and compassion”.  Chris ran with this and commented “Wow Lee, that’s got to be painful. How long has this been going on?” Lee sat straight and went into a lengthy explanation and it was soon clear, Lee would eventually become a new client.

 “Good job” said Pat “you really turned that one around”.  “Thanks Pat” responded Chris. “It was a team effort”. 

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You may have heard me say this before but this joke never gets old “Sincerity is everything, once you can fake that, the world is yours”. But what makes this funny is it’s a lie. People can smell out fake compassion and empathy. If you really care about people, prospects can tell. Once they know you care, they will stop shopping. They KNOW nothing is perfect, but once you win their loyalty, they know you’ll make any issue, right. Care for your customers, and they will care for you. Empathy is the key to sales. 

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How To Learn the Buyers Secret Language #443

How To Learn the Buyers Secret Language  #443

 

Each industry has a secret language. There is a vernacular, nomenclature and acronyms everyone in the industry uses. To be a successful seller, you need to know that language too. How to learn the language of the buyer, that’s the topic for today.  How to learn the buyers secret language. That’s the topic for today. 

Today’s Chapter:  Speak the Buyers Secret Language

First listen
to learn their language.
Then question
to understand their lives.
Next seek
to know, what they know.
Then frame how best to express solutions.

The Master Seller
Walks in their shoes,
Listening without judging
Building credibility and trust
Marketing the buyer with relevance
Spoken in the Words of the buyer.

Today’s Story

Chris pivoted to selling a new product line in an industry new to Chris. Excited to get started Chris jumped in and started calling and emailing but each outreach hit a thud. Time and again, prospects showed no interest and Chris was getting frustrated. It seems that what used to work in one industry, didn’t in this new industry.  Pat could sense a rising level of discouragement and stepped in to help. 

“Chris”  said Pat, “This is a very different industry than what you’re used to. I know it’s a big challenge.  If you don’t know what the 280E or the 8300 form, people don’t trust that you fully understand their challenges. It’s a hurdle. 

Every industry has a secret language. And in an industry as new and changing as this one, there is no book you can read to learn it all in one place. But once you learn that language you become a member of the tribe.” 

“So what should I do?” asked Chris.

Pat answered “None of us know exactly how this is going to work. I wish I could tell you more about this industry but I’m new to it too. But I’m certain you’re the right person for this challenge. 

Find a buyer who is patient and willing to teach you a term here or a definition there.

Be patient, it’s going to take time. I believe in you. “

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Mary Torrans Lathrap authored a poem titled “Judge Softly” in 1895, and has later come to be known by its most famous and quoted line — “Walk a Mile in His Moccasins.”

“Judge Softly”

“Pray, don’t find fault with the man that limps,

Or stumbles along the road.

Unless you have worn the moccasins he wears,

Or stumbled beneath the same load.

it goes quite long but ends…

We will be known forever by the tracks we leave

In other people’s lives, our kindnesses and generosity.

Take the time to walk a mile in his moccasins.

This is true too for us sellers. We must wade into their world, understand the lingua franca of their business and speak to their concerns, challenges and aspirations. It’s your responsibility to learn their language, not vice versa. The best way to learn is to ask their advice, accept there are no dumb questions, and most likely you will lose the first few deals when you get started. But this is what you must do.

First crawl, then walk and then run. You can’t skip steps when learning the buyers secret language. . 

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How to Close a Sale #439

How to Close a Sale #439


What’s the most difficult part of a sale?  Through the years I’ve had numerous listeners tell me it’s “Closing.” People think that closing is hard and getting a prospect to put their name on a signed contract is a monumental task. Plus, people say it takes an assertive winner takes all attitude.  That’s not how it works with a Taoist perspective. I must confess, there is a certain truth to the idea of ABC Always Be Closing. If you start the selling process out right with the intention of helping your prospects, and you advance the sale by patiently answering every question the buyer asks, customers will close themselves. This is wu-wei in action. That’s the topic for today.

Today’s Chapter: Advancing the Close

With each question
Comes an answer
The Master Seller
Advances closer
Step by step
Slowly finding common ground.

Today’s Story

Lee had listened attentively to Pat and Chris’s presentation as they walked through the list of wants, needs and company desires and Chris explained how their product addressed each item. In the conversation there was a lot of back and forth. By the end of the sales call both parties had a much better understanding of the challenges Lee faced.

As the conversation wound down, Pat kept waiting and waiting for Chris to close the deal, Soon it would be too late so Pat spoke up. “From what I understand it sounds like we have addressed most of your needs, correct?” Lee nodded “yes, accept for the magna feature and you said that would be available first quarter next year, right?”  “That’s right!” said Pat “but it sounds like you don’t need it right now, right?” “Correct” said Lee, Pat went on “so it sounds like if you installed our product into your facility it would work for you, right? “ Yes”, agreed Lee. 

Chris sat quietly, following the conversation like it was a tennis match. 

Pat went one “so if we wanted to start on the roll out next month, who would be taking the lead on that in your facility?” Lee looked up and to the right, paused and said. “Oh that would be Sam”.  “Great” said Pat and with effortless action, the conversation turned to the contract, pricing and the schedule in a very natural manner. Without a hard yes, the deal was won..

Afterwards Chris told Pat, “thanks for kicking off the close. I couldn’t figure out how to get started”. “ No problem” said Pat. “It’s actually easy when you’ve done the start of the sale correctly. You answered all their questions and had already talked about schedule and pricing. All we needed was for them to agree to get started. The deal closed itself.

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I’m reminded of a quote by Seth Godin that says

“Don’t find customers for your products. Find products for your customers.”

Every answered question advance you closer to understanding if you can help your prospect. When selling is done right, both parties come to an agreement that a deal should be made. Closing isn’t’ about learning scripts and tricking people into saying yes. Closing is about advancing closer to a solution, a solution that works for the buyer.

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What Bartenders and Therapists Can Teach Sales People #437

What Bartenders and Therapists Can Teach Sales People #437


A research study at West Virginia university studied bartenders to “elucidate how bartenders define themselves, their work, and their occupation as a whole. “ Of course the craft of making cocktails was of high concern but so was customer service skills, time management, memory and situational awareness. Skilled  bartenders are great listeners which in turn  build trust and loyalty with patrons. Just like therapists, they display empathy.  The same is true for sellers. How?  Let’s listen and find out what therapists can teach sales people.

Today’s Chapter: Understand Before Being Understood

The Master Seller listens first
to understand
Before being understood.

By asking,
They receive
Creating opportunities.
Both bartender and psychologist
The Master Seller listens.

Today’s Story

Chris had worked on the new product presentation for a week and was excited to get it front of a prospective client. The day came when Pat and Chris sat at the front of the conference table, excited to share with the prospects. But Chris was surprised that’s not what happened. 

Pat kicked off the meeting by thanking the audience for taking time to meet, but then asked them to restate what they are looking to get out of the meeting. Chris was surprised since they had already covered that on a phone call a couple weeks ago. Pat went on to ask about their challenges, struggles, things they tried in the past, frustrations the team was experiencing, lost revenue and lost time to market. This went on for 40 minutes. When it came time to share their solution. They went directly to the 7th slide page, talked for 10 minutes and by the end of the conversation they agreed to take the next steps to start a pilot test project. Good news.

Afterwards Chris goes to Pat “But we never even showed them the presentation?” “True” said Pat, “but great sellers listen first to understand before pitching a solution. We did that, they appreciated it, and that’s how we got the sale to advance. Sometimes all a customer is looking for is a therapist. We gave them what they wanted.”

Take Action Quote

The stoic philosopher Epictetus said ‘We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.’  This is even more true for sales professionals. The best way to know what a buyer is thinking is to ask them. Most people will tell you everything about the troubles in their lives if you’re willing to listen. To know what a buyer wants is the key to framing your products and services when you present. Stop guessing what people want and assuming you have the solution to all life’s problems. Instead be the bartender and ask “How’s it going?”

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You can be yourself when selling. It’s all about helping others with their challenges and aspirations. I’ve interviewed 100s of sales experts and discuss all things sales: prospecting, qualifying, value propositions, presentations, demos, closing, generating referrals, earning references, upselling, marketing, lead generation, copywriting, and most important the right selling mindset. Stop fearing sales and embrace it. Learn the selling secrets for non-sellers and start making a difference today. Here is the entire back catalog of episodes in the sales podcast.  Look here https://www.salesbabble.com/sales-podcast-free-advice/

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The Perfect Sales Apology #436

The Perfect Sales Apology #436


Have you ever wronged someone but struggled to say your sorry in a way that prompted forgiveness from the person you wronged? Have you had that happen to you in business? Without doubt I’m certain you have!  Because we all make mistakes. We all do things that benefit us more than others. This is the human experience. But far too often our egos get in the way and we refuse to admit we’re wrong. Or if we do, we layer on excuses to make us feel better but it does nothing to further forgiveness. What can we do, to make wrongs right? This is the topic for today, the perfect sales apology.

Today’s Chapter: Time To Quit Selling

I was wrong
Completely wrong.
At the time I had my reasons
But it doesn’t change the fact
I was wrong.

How can I make this right?

Today’s Story

The company screwed up and Chris was the first to learn it. The customer had gone ballistic and was threatening to yank the contract. There was a flurry of calls and the entire weekend was devoted to solving the issue. Chris was innocent and had nothing to do with the misstep. It was all on customer service who dropped the ball, creating a devastating situation. This was the first time Chris had experienced something like this. It was such a debacle. 

But Pat put Chris at ease.“I know it’s not your fault, it’s the company’s fault. But since you have the relationship with the customer it falls on you to apologize. And there is only one way to do this – fully take responsibility.”

“I guess I can see that,” said Chris. “I guess it makes sense for me to talk to them. But what should I say?”

“Tell them it’s all on us” replied Pat “Tell them we completely missed the mark. Make sure they know they have every right to be angry with us. We were wrong and we want to make things right for them. Ask them what it will take to fix this. We need to keep them as a customer and make sure other customers don’t catch wind. We’re going to do what it takes to fix this. And when this is all done, put processes in place so it never happens again.”

Take Action Quote

I recall one time I had a customer who was constantly complaining our system was not working right yet we couldn’t see any issues on our end. After going back and forth for two weeks one of the engineers discovered there was an odd instance that only affected THAT customer. It was devastating and I apologized profusely and to make it right, gave them an entire year of service for free in hopes that come time to renewal it would all be forgotten. It worked! But at the time it was an extremely painful experience. By taking full responsibility, we retained a client. 

Ben Franklin wrote “Never ruin an apology with an excuse”.  When people are wronged they want to be heard and acknowledged.. A sincere and full apology can quickly diffuse a bad situation. It’s the only way to move forward.

Lastly, like I said  I use this apology in business, but it also works in your personal life. Self righteousness gets you nowhere. We all make mistakes. Own it and use this apology to make it right.   Good luck.

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Sales Babble shares selling secrets for non-sellers.  Masterful selling is understanding what buyers want, discerning if you can help,  showing what you have and helping them to make a decision that is good for their business and yours. See https://salesbabble.com

You can be yourself when selling. It’s all about helping others with their challenges and aspirations. I’ve interviewed 100s of sales experts and discuss all things sales: prospecting, qualifying, value propositions, presentations, demos, closing, generating referrals, earning references, upselling, marketing, lead generation, copywriting, and most important the right selling mindset. Stop fearing sales and embrace it. Learn the selling secrets for non-sellers and start making a difference today. Here is the entire back catalog of episodes in the sales podcast.  Look here https://www.salesbabble.com/sales-podcast-free-advice/

This is a production of Habanero Media https://habaneromedia.net

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